An Open Letter to Colin Kaepernick


I respect your right to take a stand by choosing not to stand during the National Anthem.  I admire the fact that you have a social conscience and the desire to speak to the issues of our day.  I recognize that we still have some serious racial divides and issues in our country.  I’ve read enough of your tweets to know that I don’t agree with all of your conclusions, but in America, we are allowed to speak our minds and to take appropriate actions to communicate what we believe.

I know that not everyone enjoys it, but I appreciate athletes who use their status to speak and do more than just play ball and make a dollar.  There are many causes to promote, many stands to take, many evils to point out.  And you had a right to make your point.

But having the right to do something doesn’t mean that it is the right thing to do.  I, too,  have the right to speak my mind, so I want to respectfully tell you why I disagree with your actions, and why I encourage you to stand respectfully the next time you hear the National Anthem:

  • Standing during the National Anthem shows respect toward those who have served our nation and for the nation itself.  It doesn’t mean that you agree with everything the nation has done.  I would stand and show respect at the singing of any National Anthem in any country.  When in Canada, I would stand respectfully during their playing of their anthem.  If in Russia, I would do the same.  I expect the same courtesy from any of our own athletes and from visiting athletes.  Disagreement–even strong disagreement–doesn’t have to lead to disrespect.  And I think that your actions showed a great degree of disrespect for America, for those who have served America, and for all Americans.

  • I don’t know you personally, but it would seem to me that the United States has treated you very well.  You have worked hard and are reaping the rewards of that hard work.  Young black men in previous generations may not have been able to reap the rewards of that work, so we are changing.  It’s slow, and it’s not across the board, but we are changing.  We are far from perfect and we have many remaining issues to solve, but our nation has given you an incredible opportunity.  Should you not be able to respect a nation that has given you that opportunity?

  • Your apparent disrespect offends the many people who would otherwise be your allies.  Many good people of all skin colors who love our country despite our sins are working hard to overcome racism in our country.  I happen to be a white pastor of a predominately white church.  I preach strongly of the evils of racism and call our church to take a strong stand against the evils of racism.  But we can accomplish more with mutual respect than we can with shows of disrespect.

  • And though my church is predominately white, the basketball league I administer is predominately black.  I work with young black athletes on an almost daily basis.  I don’t always understand them.  And they don’t always understand me.  But we’re working hard to love and respect each other.  I expect them to stand at attention during the National Anthem.  I expect them (even if they’re not believers) to take off their ball caps and bow their heads during prayer.  I expect them to listen respectfully when I speak.  And I do the same to them.  Even when we disagree, we work on the basis of mutual respect.  Your example of disrespect will just encourage disrespect on a local level.

So continue to speak what’s on your mind.  Take a stand.  Make a strong point.  Make me think.  Challenge me.  Tell me where you think I’m wrong.  Call out our leaders (and even pastors) when we’re wrong.  And I will do the same.

But let’s do so with at least a base level of respect.  Stand respectfully during the playing of the National Anthem.  Set an example of a man who can state his opinions boldly and forcefully, and yet still show respect for his nation and his fellow countrymen.

I respect your desire to take a strong stand, but I believe you will accomplish much more if your strong stands are combined with respect for our nation and our people.

Pastor Jack Marslender, First Southern Baptist Church of Avondale

About Pastor Jack

Pastor Jack Marslender is the pastor of First Southern Baptist Church of Avondale. He is married (Dawn) and is the father of Tina, Rebecca, Kimberly, Melinda, Angela, Maria, Kenneth, Kevin, and Lorissa. He is also the grandfather of Wyatt, Emilie, Everett, Olivia, Dylan, Charlotte, and Aiden.
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